mrmph

either or, but not both?

the game of versus.

idealism vs. realism and pragmatism
solid income vs. boring job?
(not always mutually exclusive)
past vs. future
(present)

the age of 23 doesn't inspire large amounts of excitement. still considered the "early 20s", 23 is, nonetheless, on the verge of crossing over into that period of "respect and responsibility" that society expects. it's also the age at which the 2-year mark post-college (undergrad) becomes significant because questions start to arise: what are you really doing with your life, now that you've had a chance to look around? is that the perfect industry for you? the right cubicle? the correct title on the business card? are your friendships beneficial? is your car reflective of your personality and status? is it paid off? are you saving enough money? 401k? are you being responsible with your finances? are your activities not only fun but also useful? are your relationships leading somewhere?

growing up is overrated. i'll continue to smear mud on my nose, leave work drenched in bay water, talk to the fishies that we study, and make moo-ing sounds with my niece. moo.